Selena Gomez has serious trust issues! While promoting her new song “Good for You” on Z100, the singer opened up about how she can’t trust anyone after being “ripped apart” by others on everything from her tumultuous relationship with Justin Bieber to her bikini photos. In fact, the actress insists that she’s trying to weed out the people in her life who aren’t good for her.

“People are like, ‘We want you to be better!’ And everybody’s like ‘I want you to be better’ and everybody’s like ‘I want you to be healthy,’ ‘I want you to be happy,’ ‘I want you to be this.’ And then the moment you’re trying to find some sort of happiness, it’s so crazy. It’s not safe for anyone! You can’t talk about anything that you want to share with people because it’s going to be ripped apart, and that’s what makes me really sad,” she said.

“If you’re going to sit here and talk about my life, I have a right to say what I want and obviously I’m going to do it the way I wish to. I don’t trust anyone. It’s something that I have to live with and I have to find the balance of who I want in my life and who isn’t good for me.”

Even if she finds it hard to trust new people, we’re glad that she at least has a supportive group offriends like Taylor Swift. She’s carving out a life she wants with people who make her happy — that’s awesome!